MISTAKES YOU ARE MAKING THAT ARE KEEPING YOU SINGLE
You're definitely sick of going on dates that don't lead to relationships. Are you tired of pursuing people who are obviously not ready to commit? It may be time to reconsider your strategy for looking for true love if you've tried everything to find your mate but had little luck.
There are numerous mistakes you make that has kept you single till today; it has to stop.
Below are some of the mistakes:
1. You never make the move – You make eye contact from afar. You smile at them without expressing your feelings. You follow their Instagram stories. That is flirting in your opinion. It's not good enough, and sorry to have to break it to you, it isn't clear enough. You must express your interest in someone if you want to date them.
2. You give up too easily – You assume it's over when your crush gives another guy a look. You believe your chances are slim. You assume that your efforts are futile. You play the compare-and-contrast game, considering the odds and then come to a conclusion that you will lose. Your relationship doesn't even get a chance.
3. You are insecure – If you don't think highly of yourself, it will be tough for you to accept that you deserve love. Because of your poor self-worth, you are more prone to perceive other people's expressions of desire for you as doubtful and deceptive.
4. You are always indoor – You won't fall in love while lying on your couch at home alone. Even if you find someone to swipe right on, you will eventually have to meet them in person. A relationship that is only maintained through text will end quickly. You actually need to get up and leave the house if you want to find true love.
5. You are too concerned about your relationship status – Yes, it would be good to start a solid, committed relationship, but besides you, who really cares that you're single? No one. Perhaps some of your friends and family have been pressuring you to get married, but they are just doing so because they want to see you happy and believe that being in a relationship will do that. They won't care if you're in a relationship or not if you can learn to be happy alone. It will be easier to find a healthy relationship if you worry less about having a partner.
6. You are too clingy – You are easily deceived. You see how unserious they are. And you carry on pursuing them. Even after you notice the red flags, you still spend much too much time with the wrong person. You miss the opportunity to meet people who would truly make good partners because you're still obsessed with your ex.
7. Your standards are vague – Vague standards can result from being in a desperate situation. Being overly desperate can result in a date with no standards, just as having the insight of the perfect relationship in mind can ruin your prospects at dating.
Keeping an open mind about the kind of relationship you want is a good idea. But this does not obligate you to pursue every 'Tinder' match.
If you keep making these mistakes, you will remain single. Learn from your mistakes and build a good relationship from it.